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1) Kiss or Lick adds +1 to the target's Pleasure, while a successful Masturbate, Finger/Fist, Cum Swap, Fuck her Face, Toy, or Trib adds pleasure to the target equal to the margin of victory (minus the target's Tease in the case of Masturbate).

Tongue adds pleasure to the target equal to the margin of victory, so the target's defense (Pussy or Ass roll) does matter. I will edit the basic rules to make this more clear.

2) Yes, "while she's eating you" means that Fuck her Face can be used by a pinned (or bound) **** whose opponent tongued her pussy last turn. Also, a pinned (or bound) **** whose opponent Fucked her Face last turn can Tongue her opponent's Pussy.

3) Strip is a Tease action, and so a successful Strip adds +1 to the accruing Tease bonus. During the Strip action, the ****'s Tease Trait (including all Kink bonuses to Tease) is doubled. Strip does not double her Tease bonus built up from successful Tease actions. A **** could Tease twice, building up a +2 Tease bonus, and then declare a Strip Tease, using (2xTease Trait) +2 Tease bonus.

This is confusing because I called the bonus to all rolls built up from successful Teasing a Tease bonus, when I should have called it something else, like a Tempt bonus. I will edit the basic rules to make this more clear.

4) Pole Dance is a Tease action, and so a successful Pole Dance adds +1 to the accruing Tease bonus (Tempt bonus), while forcing her opponent to follow it with her own tease.